Late to the Party: Finding My Place as a Queer, AuDHD Woman

For years, she felt like everyone else had been handed a manual for life that she'd somehow missed. In this deeply personal essay, one woman reflects on coming out in her late 30s, receiving an AuDHD diagnosis in her 50s, and finding a sense of belonging in the queer community after feeling like she'd arrived late to the party.

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Behind the Curtain with Emmanuelle Mattana

Award‑winning queer artist Emmanuelle Mattana takes us inside the world of Trophy Boys, drag king culture, and the performance of masculinity. From Melbourne’s vibrant drag scene to their move to London, Mattana shares insights into creativity, gender, and the future of queer theatre.

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Val Eastwood: The Woman Who Built Melbourne’s First Queer Haven

In 1950s Melbourne — a city where queerness was criminalised and lived in whispers — Val Eastwood quietly built a sanctuary. Her iconic Val’s Coffee Lounge became one of Australia’s earliest LGBTQ+ hubs, offering a lifeline to queer people who had never before seen themselves reflected in public. Val’s unapologetic style, entrepreneurial spirit, and fearless visibility changed the course of sapphic history.

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What's So Hard to Get? Transphobia in Our Midst

Some LGBTQ+ spaces still struggle with trans inclusion — but why? In this powerful reflection, cis lesbian Catherine Mellors explores fear, generational tension, shared queer history and the courage it takes for trans women to simply show up. A call for empathy, dignity and genuine allyship within our own community.

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Love, Resilience and Building a Life Together: Alexa & Zara’s Story

Alexa and Zara’s relationship began with an unexpected knock at the door and grew into a six‑year partnership defined by honesty, humour and resilience. In this intimate Q&A, they open up about their careers, their first impressions, surviving a difficult move during COVID, and the foundations that keep their love strong.

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Masculinity and the King

Drag kings are reshaping the way we understand masculinity — not by imitating men, but by exposing how constructed masculinity really is. Through swagger, satire, taped chests and bold performance, kings claim power, confidence and desire on their own terms. This piece dives into the theory, the rebellion and the magic behind Australia’s drag king revolution.

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Lesbians Leap from the Archives 1970–2000

A groundbreaking exhibition is opening in Melbourne this October, showcasing three decades of lesbian activism, creativity, and community-building. Lesbians Leap from the Archives 1970–2000 brings together rare materials from personal collections and national archives to honour the women who shaped feminist and lesbian culture across Australia.

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Lesbians & Bisexual Women: A History of Tension & Solidarity

For decades, bisexual women have been pushed to the margins of lesbian feminist spaces — from separatist ideology in the 1970s to modern dating apps and community discourse. This article traces that history through archives, old LOTL issues, and lived experience, revealing how exclusion was justified, how it persists, and why solidarity between lesbians and bi+ women is vital for our shared liberation.

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Behind the Curtain with Sexy Galaxy

Step behind the curtain with Australia’s original GlamourBoi King, Sexy Galexy. In this intimate Q&A, Sexy shares how drag transformed shyness into confidence, how identity shaped his iconic GlamourBoi style, and why preserving drag king history matters now more than ever.

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Constant Craving – Lesbians and Limerence

Limerence isn’t just a crush — it’s the overwhelming, involuntary longing that can take over your entire emotional landscape. In this intimate reflection, Jody Ekert explores how desire, projection, and queer culture collide, revealing why sapphic limerence can feel so intoxicating, so consuming, and so hard to recognise.

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A Living Archive: Joan Nestle, DAAFT, and the Queer Histories That Shape Us

Meeting Joan Nestle at the Letters From Ger exhibition felt like stepping into living queer history. Everything I’d learned about the 1950s, Stonewall, and the early days of lesbian activism had always come from books or documentaries. Hearing Joan speak — a woman who has been out since the 1950s and founded the Lesbian Herstory Archives — awakened a hunger in me for real, tangible stories from elders in our community. What began as a chance encounter quickly became a friendship that reshaped my understanding of queer lineage, activism, and love.

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Lesbian Involvement in Australia’s Early Gay Activism

Lesbian activists played a pivotal role in shaping Australia’s early gay rights movement. From the Daughters of Bilitis to CAMP INC, Gay Liberation, and Women’s Liberation, lesbians were central to public education, protest, and political organising throughout the 1960s and 1970s

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The Winter Solstice: Finding Light, Community, and Quiet Resilience in Regional NSW

Travelling to Uralla for a Winter Solstice celebration becomes an unexpected moment of reflection — on ageing, queer community, regional life, and the small rituals that help us navigate the longest night of the year. Among lanterns, bonfires, and shared wishes, a sense of connection emerges in a month where acceptance has felt fragile. It might just be the most beautiful night of the year.

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From ’78 to Now: Kate Rowe on Lesbian Storytelling, Activism, and Aging Out Loud

Activist, athlete, 78er and late‑blooming storyteller Kate Rowe joins Silke for a powerful conversation about lesbian identity, protest, community, and aging out loud. From the night of the 1978 Mardi Gras arrests to the shifting “queer alphabet” of today, Kate reflects on courage, conflict, humour, and finding her voice in her seventies. Her stories bridge generations - reminding us why lesbian history matters now more than ever.

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