IDENTITY
Featured Stories
Stories that explore the many ways lesbian and queer identity is lived, shaped, and expressed.
Queer Conversation - Identity
Clips and excerpts from LOTL interviews and podcasts that explore
identity through dialogue
Lived Experience
Stories about coming out, self‑discovery, transitions, ageing, and the everyday realities of lesbian & queer life.
Listen to the LOTL Lounge Podcast
Audio versions of our conversations - for your commute, your walk, or your quiet moments.
Belonging & Community
How we find our people, build chosen family, and create spaces where we can be fully ourselves.
Intersectionality
Perspectives that explore the intersections of sexuality, gender, culture, race, disability, and class.
Want to Share Your Story?
Invitation for community submissions.
Generational Voices
Reflections from lesbian & queer women and non‑binary people across different eras, from the early days of LOTL to today

Alexa and Zara’s relationship began with an unexpected knock at the door and grew into a six‑year partnership defined by honesty, humour and resilience. In this intimate Q&A, they open up about their careers, their first impressions, surviving a difficult move during COVID, and the foundations that keep their love strong.