IDENTITY
Featured Stories
Stories that explore the many ways lesbian and queer identity is lived, shaped, and expressed.
Queer Conversation - Identity
Clips and excerpts from LOTL interviews and podcasts that explore
identity through dialogue
Lived Experience
Stories about coming out, self‑discovery, transitions, ageing, and the everyday realities of lesbian & queer life.
Listen to the LOTL Lounge Podcast
Audio versions of our conversations - for your commute, your walk, or your quiet moments.
Belonging & Community
How we find our people, build chosen family, and create spaces where we can be fully ourselves.
Intersectionality
Perspectives that explore the intersections of sexuality, gender, culture, race, disability, and class.
Want to Share Your Story?
Invitation for community submissions.
Generational Voices
Reflections from lesbian & queer women and non‑binary people across different eras, from the early days of LOTL to today


Some LGBTQ+ spaces still struggle with trans inclusion — but why? In this powerful reflection, cis lesbian Catherine Mellors explores fear, generational tension, shared queer history and the courage it takes for trans women to simply show up. A call for empathy, dignity and genuine allyship within our own community.