Alexa and Zara’s relationship began with an unexpected knock at the door and grew into a six‑year partnership defined by honesty, humour and resilience. In this intimate Q&A, they open up about their careers, their first impressions, surviving a difficult move during COVID, and the foundations that keep their love strong.

A reflective and queer‑affirming exploration of how to tell whether a relationship is facing ordinary challenges, evolving into something new, or quietly approaching its end. From conflict and communication to safety, renewal and the courage to leave, this piece offers grounded guidance — and a reminder to always start by calming down and making a cup of tea.

For queer women, family isn’t always defined by blood. It’s built through loyalty, love, and the people who show up when it matters.